Sunday, December 27, 2009

Jim returns

We have just returned from the hospital having witnessed a miraculous transformation in Jim. He was very sleepy this morning when Brigie, Rose and Pearl visited but at 6:15pm, Brigie and I went in to see him with Flora and Pearl waiting outside in case he was awake and was well enough to see them.

Jim appeared very animated from the start. We put his glasses on him and after seeing him mouth some sentences without being understood, Brigie asked him if we wanted a pen and paper. He nodded, and then he started to write with his (natural) left hand. It was hard to write from a prone position on a clipboard, but his handwriting was not much worse than it had been before the accident.

He wrote "It's been my birthday." We assured him that he had not missed this. He was concerned about his iPod, phone and skateboard. We assured him that none of these had been damaged. He then wrote "I hurt myself badly but I've done amazing things thanks to the support/surgery." He wrote "how long ago did I have this accident?" and we told him about what happened.

Pearl and Flora came in and he wrote "what new stuff did you guys get for Xmas?" They told him about the DVDs of all six seasons of Larry David's Curb Your Enthusiasm that had been a family present and he wrote "They only released season 6 this year". He seemed very eager to communicate by writing, but this was making him tired. He also forgot some of the answers and mouthed "what happened to me?" after we had explained it earlier. But this time after I explained, he mouthed "was anyone killed?" and after hearing the answer, he mouthed "thank God", two words that have a deeper meaning than he realizes right now. The last thing he wrote was "Who is this guy?" with an arrow pointing to one of the nurses.

The writing had really tired Jim out, and it was time to leave him to rest. For the first time since the accident Jim looked at ease when we left, and seemed comfortable with the assurance that we would return in the morning. It was a euphoric drive home.

16 comments:

  1. Wow! I am thrilled for you all.

    I had a hunch that things may change when I read that Jim was being put on anti-convulsants to help his pain. I've been on morphine at times (too often!) and have had several stints on anti-convulsants for neuropathic pain. The latter was always life changing due to the way it calmed the neurological issues I have dealt with. I am so glad similar medications seem to be bringing relief and clarity to Jim.

    Best wishes,

    Rosalind

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  2. I (Golbon) have been thinking about Jim all weekend. This news made us really happy; welcome back Jim!

    Golbon Mark Yusef Yahya

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  3. Oh ,that is such great progress, Love Rob and Michele

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  4. Fantastic!!! Happy New Year to you all! xxx Beth

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  5. I really felt happiness after reading this hopeful post. Hope to hear more and more good news from here.

    Best Wishes,
    Javad

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  6. That is such great news!! Thanks for keeping us posted. Jody

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  7. Wonderful news.

    Love to all,

    Marianne and Don

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  8. Wow!! The best Christmas gift ever. He will make a complete recovery with all his intellect and his body intact. With his strength improving he should be off the ventilator in just a few more days. Thanks for keeping us informed. Lots of love,
    Jeff, Estela, Alan and Christian

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  9. Hi Andy, Brigie and Family. I just learned about Jim and I'm SO sorry. My heart goes out to you guys. I'm glad to hear that he's doing better lately though. Our prayers are with you. Lots of love, Garrett

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  10. Dear All
    I have been following your daily blogs and was thrilled to hear Jim is able to communicate with you at last.He has come such a long way in a short time, the human body and more importantly the human spirit is a remarkable thing.
    Love Sarah Coughlan

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  11. Amazing to be able to see the whole story even picking up at this late date - can't imagine what it's been like for you. All my thoughts and best wishes for you all. Tava

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  12. Oh !! bloody fantastic news .... the best....thanks so much for taking the time to update your blog. That is such cool news ...
    all the best and all our love for even better improvements .. cheers jan milne and co.

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  13. hugely reassuring news! all best to Jim and his loving family. Matt, Sarah & boys.

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  14. Yippeee!!!!! Loud cheering from Wellington!

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  15. Thats fantastic! Very very loud cheering from Waiheke. Well done Jim. We have been checking in morning and evening and are so happy to read that he is now communicating. Not easy lying down and writing.

    Lots of love from us all xxxx

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  16. Woops that"s wierd that is from us Edwards's not MCS!

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